In the past, I've focused on the 80/20 rule (80% for whole grains, fruits, vegetables, etc., 20% for ice cream, ketchup, hash browns and wine). I've also done sugar detoxes, extreme clean eating, and whatever else sparked my interest. I still love my 80/20, but it's time for me to shift my focus. Instead of thinking that I'm using up valuable space in my 20% with my glass of wine, I will instead be thinking something along the lines of, 'alright, more kale in the next meal'. See, life's all about that balance. And if I can't enjoy some red without feeling guilt, then I'm not truly balanced.
I'm a huge proponent of focusing on what you're building rather than what you're trying to get away from. For instance, there's more power behind a goal of losing 10lbs when it's coming from I feel energized when I run, and I want to keep up with my kids than if it comes from I hate my body, I can't stand to look in the mirror without cringing. Love will get you a helluva lot further than fear and anger.
So that's where this intention comes from; love. This is going to be a year of radical self love, by giving my body what it needs to operate optimally, and indulging in the experiences that bring me great joy. Because I love my Sunday brunch, crispy hash with ketchup, please!
I love this Stella! Beautiful and so true!
ReplyDeleteKristy, thank you so much for reading!
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